Matthew Jason Wachter of Los Angeles cheated on me, without using a condom – after dating for 6 years with his co-worker Akiko-Yamashita – VJ Herpes a few weeks before my father’s death. I found out from someone else and a letter the week of my father’s passing. He still has never apologized. After cheating without a condom, he passed me herpes. I heard from a friend that he may now have syphilis, gonorrhea, and possibly Aids. Beware!!